Real closeness begins with real conversations
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Real closeness begins with real conversations
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Over 45,000+ impulses for intensive conversations
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Thousands of couples. Thousands of real moments.
Over 40,000 people have already experienced new closeness at home with our cards. See how others are having real conversations—and be inspired.
Many relationships do not suffer from a lack of love – but from a lack of depth
In many relationships, everyday life becomes loud while the inner life remains quiet. People talk… but not really. Often there is simply not enough space to talk honestly about feelings – without arguments, without pressure. And so an emotional distance slowly develops that you hardly notice yourself.
Our products are for everyone who...
...want deeper conversations with their partner, family or themselves.
…feel emotional distance and want to build more closeness again.
…don't know how to address difficult topics — but know they want to.
…are looking for an alternative or complement to therapy to strengthen their relationships.
…want to understand themselves better, reflect on their emotions or question old patterns.
Our Mission
We'll help you get back into conversation. Honestly, gently, and at eye level.
Our card sets were developed together with a therapist and bring back exactly what so many are missing:
Connection, understanding and the feeling of being truly seen.
Whether as a couple, with family or among friends – our products create a space in which you can get closer to each other again.
Why they work
- Developed with a licensed therapist
- Ideal for couples, families and close friendships
- Without pressure – but with real depth
- Over 40,000 sets sold in Europe
- Described by real customers as “ mini therapy for at home ”
User experiences
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- Ordered: How Are You Really? Card Deck
Super intimate. Spoiler: Only give it to people you'd want to share it with.
It's super personal, but you get to have so many beautiful and honest conversations that I haven't experienced that in a long time. I'd be happy to do it again, and I'm now happy to give it as a gift to people close to me. - Ordered: Emotional Package
Self-awareness is inevitable. I was a little afraid at first that I wouldn't have the right answers to the questions, but there's no right or wrong here, just being honest. I can only recommend it to every couple; it has taken me and my partner worlds further and intensified our relationship.
- Ordered: How Are You Really? Card Deck
Some of the best questions we can ask
I bought the game for myself and my girlfriend and didn't expect much, but the questions are very well worded.
So open enough that you can say a lot about it, but also concrete enough that you have a clear idea of what you can say about it.And it's a good way to start a conversation about topics that concern you, without repeating yourself to everyone's answers 👍🏼
Highly recommended
- Ordered: How Am I Really Doing? Journaling Set
Deep, inspiring
I use this set in combination with "How are you really doing?" If a question arises in the other set that's just too uncomfortable, and the mood threatens to turn sour because it's not the right moment to talk about our relationship, this set is our wildcard. Sometimes it's easier to talk about yourself than about "us." And that way, over time, we find ourselves again without pressure. I also like to use this set just for myself and my journal, to open up and keep access to myself open.
I find both versions incredibly exciting and thank you for your input!
Developed under the professional supervision of licensed therapist Grace Bithell
Grace Bithell has carefully reviewed and co-designed all of our products. With her expertise as a licensed therapist, she has helped make each one a tool for fostering emotional safety, deep connection, and healthy communication.
Fast shipping from Berlin
Most orders within Germany take less than three days.
Thousands of conversations
Over 45,000 Cards Sold Worldwide
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Do you have any questions?
We'll be happy to answer them!
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How do I use the card sets?
How do I use the card sets?
Will your products help me build closer relationships with my partner or family members?
Will your products help me build closer relationships with my partner or family members?
Yes, if you're both truly open and honest with each other. We can only offer tools to support you in this process. The special thing about our card decks is that they help you talk about the things that really matter, not the superficial. If you'd like to feel closer to your loved ones, try one of our card decks. We're convinced it will strengthen your connection in ways you might not expect! If, for whatever reason, this doesn't happen, you can return the cards to us within 30 days of receipt. You have nothing to lose.
Do the cards help me open up and express my feelings?
Do the cards help me open up and express my feelings?
Yes, they will help. However, you have to be willing to commit. The cards guide you through tasks designed to overcome aemotional barriers and create a safe space for open communication. They provide a starting point for sharing thoughts and emotions that would otherwise be difficult to express. Is it easy? No. Is it worth the effort? Absolutely.
Can I use the cards for myself?
Can I use the cards for myself?
For self-reflection, we recommend the How Am I Really Doing? Journaling Set. This card deck was designed to strengthen self-awareness and self-love and help you recognize your own negative patterns.
Do the cards really create a deeper connection?
Do the cards really create a deeper connection?
It all depends on how willing you are to be open and vulnerable. If you truly commit to it, the cards will bring forth a level of interpersonal closeness you never knew was possible.
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