In everyday life, couples can sometimes feel alienated from each other. Most of us long for true emotional closeness, yet many of us find it difficult to honestly express these feelings and needs.
Truly deep conversations rarely arise naturally in our routine-driven daily routines. One of the biggest challenges is finding the balance between what our relationship demands and what we personally need.

" Love & Desire " naturally guides you and your partner to the conversations that really matter. The deck encourages honesty and the acceptance of vulnerability. At the same time, it creates a safe space for deep feelings and personal needs.
This set offers much more than just cards: it provides access to intense intimacy and gives a positive effect that will resonate in your hearts for years to come.
You learn to share your desires and ask questions that we rarely dare to express.
The special features:
- Strengthen your connection : The carefully selected questions and tasks are designed to advance your relationship by promoting communication and mutual understanding.
- Surrender to your desires : Here you will find a safe space for unlimited pleasure.
- No rules, just honesty : The deck doesn't offer pre-written dialogues. "Love & Desire" encourages genuine honesty and paves the way for your conversations to unexpected and beautiful places.
DETAILS:
- 2 categories: Relationship and |*timacy cards
- Questions and exercises
- 140 cards
- Developed in collaboration with a couples therapist
- Only suitable for couples
- Minimum age: 18+
Love & Desire Card Box + Digital Set
Who knows when or where the opportunity might arise to delve deeper into the world with your partner? This combo set is ideal for anyone who would like to have a digital version of the cards on their phone.
We will ship the card box to the delivery address you provide. The digital version will be available for download immediately after payment is complete. It will be displayed as a PDF and sent to you via email. P.S.: We're currently developing a "How Are You Really?" app. Anyone who has purchased our digital products will receive free access to the app at a later date.
Brings people even closer together
Reviewed and approved by a licensed therapist
Thousands of conversations
More than 40,000+ orders in Europe
Fast delivery
Most products arrive in less than 5 days. Digital products ship immediately.
Thousands of couples. Thousands of real moments.
More than 40,000 people have already experienced a new sense of closeness at home with our cards.
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Developed under the professional supervision of licensed therapist Grace Bithell
Grace Bithell has carefully reviewed and co-designed all of our products. With her expertise as a licensed therapist, she has helped make each one a tool for fostering emotional safety, deep connection, and healthy communication.

Published in the Wienerin
April 2022


FAQ
Will your products help me build closer relationships with my partner or family members?
Will your products help me build closer relationships with my partner or family members?
Yes, if you're both truly open and honest with each other. We can only offer tools to support you in this process. The special thing about our card decks is that they help you talk about the things that really matter, not the superficial. If you'd like to feel closer to your loved ones, try one of our card decks. We're convinced it will strengthen your connection in ways you might not expect! If, for whatever reason, this doesn't happen, you can return the cards to us within 30 days of receipt. You have nothing to lose.
Do the cards help me open up and express my feelings?
Do the cards help me open up and express my feelings?
Yes, they will help. However, you have to be willing to commit. The cards guide you through tasks designed to overcome aemotional barriers and create a safe space for open communication. They provide a starting point for sharing thoughts and emotions that would otherwise be difficult to express. Is it easy? No. Is it worth the effort? Absolutely.
Can I use the cards for myself?
Can I use the cards for myself?
For self-reflection, we recommend the How Am I Really Doing? Journaling Set. This card deck was designed to strengthen self-awareness and self-love and help you recognize your own negative patterns.
Do the cards really create a deeper connection?
Do the cards really create a deeper connection?
It all depends on how willing you are to be open and vulnerable. If you truly commit to it, the cards will bring forth a level of interpersonal closeness you never knew was possible.